Your resolve and eagerness to solve all her problems.
When she comes to you crying and telling you that her colleagues were rude to her all day, she had a fight with her friend or she tore her dress you shouldn’t start threatening her colleagues, trying to make peace between her and her friends. And please don’t even attempt to sew her dress up.
Your vigorous scrupulousness and being obsessed with putting things in order.
Women would love to see her clothes wrapped in the wardrobe in case she put them there herself and if you are trying to help, you had better go take out the trash. It’s much better if you don’t sort her personal hygiene items out in the bathroom putting them in a straight row as well.